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“It’s not about sexuality; it’s about them using stupid practices”: Advertising phone sex lines

As Shyla*, a phone sex operator shares in a forum,

“I am a phone sex operator who is just getting started and not having much luck. I am very good at what I do but I cannot seem to get the callers”

 The reason she claims for decline in the business is due to the lack of advertisements for the business. Advertising and establishing themselves is a great task to deal with in working as a phone sex operator. The charge for advertising phone sex services in online media varies according to the trafficking opted by the client. It is usually a lot higher than what is being paid for normal advertisements. Because of these higher rates some phone sex operators prefer to work on a well built platform like Niteflirt, Myphonesite or Talksugar. But, there also problem exists. There are low call rates in this, as said in an interview with us by a phone sex operator, who has been working in the field for about 6 years,

 “Some companies will take advantage of a phone sex operator by offering less than beneficial compensation to someone who doesn’t know any better”

Phone sex, as advertised by various media:

Most of the national newspapers have banned advertisements for services of sexual nature. Before this ban phone sex commercials have been present in some newspapers. Newspapers like The Sun have carried advertisements of phone sex companies. These advertisements were banned as they portrayed women’s body as a sexual object. Countries like Mexico, Spain have also banned advertising sexual content in newspapers. There are magazines who still advertise phone sex.

Phone sex commercials widely known as the late night commercials, have been there for a while in television industries. In a related forum, Laht* says

“All you have to do to stop this phone sex thing is run an advertisement on television that shows what the real sex-talkers look like”

Unlike these usual advertising, phone sex companies had also started ‘phreaking which literally means hacking of phone lines. Many calls by customers have been redirected to hot chat lines. One affected person says,

It’s not about sexuality; it’s about them using stupid practices like this to try to entice the general public to use their business. If I wanted to use a phone sex line it would take me 30 seconds on Google to find the number of one. They don’t need to have a million phone numbers all forwarding to their sex line. They’re just hoarding numbers and it’s illegal”

Websites and online Webpages are a go-to spot for majority of these phone sex companies to advertise themselves. The selection here takes place based on the number of hits and trafficking posed by the site.

A phone sex operator says,

“Marketing for phone lines isn’t difficult, per say but there are a LOT of people doing it so getting noticed is where most people run into problems”

There is a great deal of effort put in advertising these phone sex sites. Financially, this requires a lot of stability to establish themselves in this field.

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“I felt like a loser, I am having serious second thoughts in it” says student male phone sex operator

The websites of some phone sex companies like Niteflirt, has a seperate platform for male phone sex operators, often named as gay phone sex operators. On this blog confessions of a male phone sex operator, Sam* who started to work as a male phone sex operator, says

“I found the listings online. I have always joked that I could get a job like that. The money was a real incentive, the thing that brought me on board. I applied, and was hired right away”.

“I am a twenty something college student. I go to parties, listen to the newest music, go shopping, go to the movies every now and then, club hop of course”  but to do my job, “I prepared a character named ‘Levi’, 22 years old, short brown spiky hair, 5’11” 150 lbs, lean and toned swimmers build with piercing bright blue eyes. On my first day, I was startled when the phone rang. The first caller hung up after 4 or so minutes. I felt like a loser. Now I am having serious second thoughts in it”.

Gemma* a female phone sex operator says “There are male operators but, it’s been my experience that they aren’t as financially successful as female operators” , it may be because,

There seems to be a definite line that men are leery of crossing insofar as talking ‘about’ bisexual fantasies and talking to a man about their bisexual fantasies. Most men are more comfortable with talking to a woman about it. And most of the time, women don’t really call phone sex”.

 “There are quite a few on one of the platforms I work with. I’ve had calls with male operators in the past, as dual entertainer calls that customers have asked for and most of the time, it’s not really long term relationship types of calls. For example, I have a client that I’ve been talking to for several years and we usually talk a couple times a month. Our calls are generally an hour or so long. Working as a male phone sex operator and managing the type of financial accomplishments that a female phone sex operator can garner is a distant fetch”.

In yahoo answers, Mao* asks,

“Why are there no male phone sex operators with female customers calling them?”

Replies are,

 “There is no market for male phone sex lines”.

 “It’s only the developed mindset in men with social influences that dictate their behaviors. I have never done it or needed too”.

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Phone Sex Scripts Revealed!

A recent blog post online on Yahoo claimed that if you apply to be a phone sex operator, you must receive training by the company. According to the post, If the company does not offer training ‘you may want to consider working for a different company’. However most companies do offer training, which helps you to build your confidence, self esteem and helps you to work successfully and earn as much money as possible. As a beginner it’s important to follow these scripts to help you get the hang of things.

You will make a nice income if you learn how to use phone sex operator scripts to boost your performance on the telephone.

When applying to be a phone sex operator you are usually provided with practise scripts, and are encouraged to practise these in front of a mirror. However more scripts are available online on various websites. Phone sex operators usually start with given scripts but slowly with experience start to create their own fantasies and own scripts, gradually creating different characters and different scenarios. So in one call the operator may be a 21year old but for the next call the operator will act as a 60 year old. The post describes a phone sex operator as an actress. Acting out different roles each time.

Don Diva Mag have published an article on scripts and have they’re own guide on how to become a perfect phone sex operator. They say

the first thing you have to do is get in the mood, or allow yourself to be put in the mood. If you will be initiating the call – get horny -by any means necessary! Sometimes it is a little hard to just jump into a hot and steamy conversation without getting mentally prepared. Need inspiration? Dim the lights, pop in a porno, read a chapter of a sexy book (keep a copy of The Sex Chronicles: Shattering the Myth by Zane in your nightstand.) Bust out your favorite toy (don’t have one? First slap yourself, then go to http://www.adameve.com and purchase your new best friend.) Think of the wildest “sexcapade” you’ve had or wanted to have. Think of him (or her – we don’t discriminate) or whatever it is that gets you horny.

One website has a good example of a phone sex script.

GWEN AS CANDI
Thank you for calling 976-LUST, I’m Candi.  What’s your
name?

That’s a very sexy name, Bruce.  I wore something
special for you tonight.  Can you guess what it is?
Moves a stack of cards.

That’s right, Bruce, I’m wearing a thin white t-shirt
and tight cut-off jeans.  Gee, Bruce, I hope you don’t
mind, but I forgot to wear any panties

Each script and website encourages you to be as wild and imaginative with your fantasies and create moods that will sexually arouse yourself.

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