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“It’s Easy Money”

“Many students are resorting to phone sex when going through financial difficulties, several of my friends are doing it, however I’m not too sure about the whole concept and I think I’d rather stick to standard employment opportunities”.

21 year old student Natasha Harris spoke of how she thinks that there are different solutions to handling financial problems rather than “degrading yourself” to such jobs.

“I agree it’s easy money but is it worth doing, I personally feel talking to random people in such ways is not my cup of tea, however I have friends and they seem to really enjoy it and are earning serious cash”.

Students must be facing severe financial difficulties if they feel that entering into the sex trade is the only way of helping them.

This raises the question that is there no sufficient funds being provided for university students.

“Student grants are available but it’s just not enough, especially in this economic climate”.

Should student finance be providing more money? Should the government introduce new schemes to help? Natasha reckons one solution could be “universities should help students to find jobs”.

When asked why students choose to become phone sex operators, Natasha replied saying

“Well my friends that have chosen this route all say its fun and exciting. They say that creating all the different fantasies is just amazing and intellectually stimulating. And no hard work involved! And the best bit is, you choose your own hours. The flexibility of being a phone sex operator is the most enticing aspect as it fits around your university work, social life and family life.”

What do you think? Tweet us @studentphonesex or add us on Facebook and let us know.

“Control the cock, you control the man”- My Phone Sex Secrets

Channel 4 has recently aired a show called “My Phone Sex Secrets” , which is about 56 year old Jenny Ainslie Turner who is a phone sex worker. The hour long documentary is full of tricks of the trade and how Jenny has found her way to easy money. Earning money by the minute and doing something she enjoys, as she claims “I never tire of talking about sex,” phone sex is a solution to all her financial difficulties.

The documentary has also focused on two students who have also opted to be phone sex workers to help fund their university expenses. *Marnie, 19 started her job as a phone sex worker when she was struggling for cash, however has chosen to leave that behind and her university as she felt being a phone sex worker has lead her to a life of loneliness. She has now chosen to photograph escorts and strippers as her career option.

Similarly Rosa, who was broke in her first year of uni, decided to try out her charms in the phone sex industry. We watched her take tips from Jenny and slowly seen her become a professional in her own right. She quite enjoyed faking orgasms and controlling men. Shes decided to stick to being a phone sex operator as its a fun way of earning extra cash.

But what do others think about this? A forum on www.mumsnet.com have been discussing it. Allthegoodnamesweretaken says

“To me it seems like the show is trying to show them as empowered women because they are taking advantage of men’s weaknesses for financial gain, when to me phone sex work is still sex work. You’re still degraded for a man who you have no emotional connection with’s sexual gratification.”

On the other hand, someone who chose this route as the job centre continuously failed to help her find employment said

“I saw a job in a sex chatline office advertised in local classifieds. It paid £12.000 a year and it was night work but it was a choice between that or workfare. Ive done workfare and ive done chatline work and guess what. Out of those two choices which were the ONLY two choices i had at that time,it wasnt the chatline that i found degrading.”

Is Technology Changing Phone Sex

There is technological advancements in phone sex. Some operators are now being asked to perform phone calls via webcam. There are several agencies that not only do phone sex but have recently introduced ‘webcam sex’. However, is webcam sex more enjoyable than phone sex? I looked at a forum on www.lovehoney.co.uk where they were discussing webcam sex. The consensus from the majority of the posts was that phone sex is better and more comfortable for those providing it, whereas webcam sex is easier with people they know or are in a relationship with. Tracey3x said

Phone sex is much more comfortable, there’s a reason why people do phone sex and that is because they don’t want people to see the real them, webcam sex is definately over stepping my limits.

FlirtatiousBaby, a female phone sex operator who uses this forum to find ideas for ‘erotic stories’ said,

 So many guys go surfing the net finding girls, then turn cam on and have their cock out wanking off. Just cant see the attraction. Got to be mental stimulation and build up. Its the law! lol.

She prefers phone sex because of the creativity and imagination that is being used, they found it more enjoyable when actually creating fantasy scenarios rather that posing for someone on video.

So, is there a technological advancement in phone sex. Even though it has been introduced and there are many places that ask to do webcam sex, including many webcam sex websites, it’s not, as this forum suggests the most popular.

I’m ok to do webcam sex for one or two people that I now know on a more regular level but I can’t just pose for lots of different men that I don’t know.

Killer Bunny, a male who, despite having a girlfriend, is a also a webcam sex operator.

Webcam sex, which i do, is a substitute for the real thing, everything is better live!

So is technology changing phone sex. Yes there has been progression as webcam sex has been introduced but, judging by this forum, phone sex is still as popular as it was before, and for some, more preferred.

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Phone Sex Scripts Revealed!

A recent blog post online on Yahoo claimed that if you apply to be a phone sex operator, you must receive training by the company. According to the post, If the company does not offer training ‘you may want to consider working for a different company’. However most companies do offer training, which helps you to build your confidence, self esteem and helps you to work successfully and earn as much money as possible. As a beginner it’s important to follow these scripts to help you get the hang of things.

You will make a nice income if you learn how to use phone sex operator scripts to boost your performance on the telephone.

When applying to be a phone sex operator you are usually provided with practise scripts, and are encouraged to practise these in front of a mirror. However more scripts are available online on various websites. Phone sex operators usually start with given scripts but slowly with experience start to create their own fantasies and own scripts, gradually creating different characters and different scenarios. So in one call the operator may be a 21year old but for the next call the operator will act as a 60 year old. The post describes a phone sex operator as an actress. Acting out different roles each time.

Don Diva Mag have published an article on scripts and have they’re own guide on how to become a perfect phone sex operator. They say

the first thing you have to do is get in the mood, or allow yourself to be put in the mood. If you will be initiating the call – get horny -by any means necessary! Sometimes it is a little hard to just jump into a hot and steamy conversation without getting mentally prepared. Need inspiration? Dim the lights, pop in a porno, read a chapter of a sexy book (keep a copy of The Sex Chronicles: Shattering the Myth by Zane in your nightstand.) Bust out your favorite toy (don’t have one? First slap yourself, then go to http://www.adameve.com and purchase your new best friend.) Think of the wildest “sexcapade” you’ve had or wanted to have. Think of him (or her – we don’t discriminate) or whatever it is that gets you horny.

One website has a good example of a phone sex script.

GWEN AS CANDI
Thank you for calling 976-LUST, I’m Candi.  What’s your
name?

That’s a very sexy name, Bruce.  I wore something
special for you tonight.  Can you guess what it is?
Moves a stack of cards.

That’s right, Bruce, I’m wearing a thin white t-shirt
and tight cut-off jeans.  Gee, Bruce, I hope you don’t
mind, but I forgot to wear any panties

Each script and website encourages you to be as wild and imaginative with your fantasies and create moods that will sexually arouse yourself.

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A Profile of Jenny Ainslie Turner

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Jenny Ainslie Turner, author of the book ‘How to Talk Dirty, A Hands on Guide to Phone Sex’ has been in the phone sex industry for over 20 years. She started off her career after watching a documentary on channel 4 on how it is beneficial when struggling financially and has now recently starred as part of a new documentary that aired on channel 4 not so long ago called ‘My Phone Sex Secrets’. Jenny has her own website on which she has embedded her books, audio books and interviews that she has done and also a link to her own phone sex company for which she provides her own training from her own experiences.

Jenny started to work as a phone sex operator as her second husband made her homeless and so she had to move to Newark in a place near her mother, unfortunately her mother suffered a heart attack after which Jenny had to quit her job to become a carer for her mother. Jenny said

it was the perfect job for me and I could do the hours to fit around taking care of mum.

 

Not long into the job I realised I had an outrageously dirty imagination. I had discovered my writing abilities a few years before but as I was poorly educated I have worked to perfect my writing skills over quite a few years. As I found myself creating little fantasy worlds for my callers, I used the opportunities to develop my writing. So, I wrote my book, How To Talk Dirty, A Hands on Guide to Phone Sex.

‘How to Talk Dirty, A Hands on Guide to Phone Sex’ is published by Flames of Desire Publishing and is sold at £11.98 at all leading book stores such as Waterstones and online book stores such as Amazon. Snippets of her book can be found on the website. The book goes in to every detail of phone sex and Jenny’s own experience, including examples of her wild fantasies that she has created with her callers.

My video on Youtube was then picked up by a TV production company, they thought I’d look good on TV and was perfect for their doc, ’My Phone Sex Secrets’ which was shown on Channel 4. Who would have thought the documentary that started me in my line of work would eventually have me starring in a similar documentary!

The website also has links to websites that Jenny recommends.

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